Have You Thought?
If you judge me because I’m married to a transgender person have you ever stopped to think about the person I am?
Have you thought about what it took for me to stay with a person who was going to become in a way the opposite of the person I married?
Have you thought about the hopes and the dreams for my life that I gave up? That I had to change?
Have you thought about the identity change that I had to go through to maintain my marriage and my family?
Have you thought that I must be busting with love, loyalty, empathy, and strength to stand by my spouses side through a gender transition?
Have you thought about what you would have thought of me if id have left?